But how do we stop the violence?

I just stumbled upon Ramzi's post about the Cycle of Violence. Short and to the point.

Ramzi - you end your post with the words:

STOP VIOLENCE NOW!

But how? We seem to be trapped in a vicious cycle, with no way out.

Every time our government finally decides to confront our own warmongers (e.g., the pullout from Lebanon in 2000, the pullout from Gaza last year): the warmongers from your side manage to provoke Israel back into violence!